What my Granpa said will change your life
11
Feb
Posted by: Sara Thomas in: Uncategorized
My Grandfather was an Illinois farmer with a business degree, and he was a man among men. When I was still in garanimals, and my mother was forging the path from secretary to office manager to MBA-toting-glass-ceiling-breaking-corporation-healing badass, he told her two things that changed her life, and mine.
Not that you asked, but it was good advice from father to daughter in the early eighties, and it is good advice for anyone now, so here goes:
- “Invest in yourself”
My mom was a newly divorced college graduate with two small kids and an administrative assistants’ paycheck that barely covered the essentials. She’d done the math of working and raising two kids alone and it didn’t add up. Then Time magazine ran an article about how MBAs were the new “pot of gold,” and my Mom knew she needed to act quickly or she would miss her moment. She was afraid to quit her job and go to school full time. My grandfather told her the best investment was in herself.
We lived on a $5,000 bonus from Mom’s old employer and a GA stipend that could not be seen with the naked eye. Grandpa helped too. We gave up some things, but we’ve never missed them. Mom got her MBA. She now has over 20 years of Fortune 100 business experience under her belt, has engaged with clients from Germany to Singapore to Georgetown, and is doing quite well.
Whether you are a secretary or an industry leader – now is no time to shrink from self investment. Your past experience and future potential are all you’ve got. Investing may rub against your grain – your gut is probably saying hoard that cash and hunker down. Turn off the CNN and slowly back away.
The winners in this global readjustment will be bold. They will treat this uncertain time like an
Oklahoma land grab. There is no guarantee things will get better, or that things won’t get worse. The only thing that is certain is change.
Imagine yourself doing something different, better, faster – lay out your plan, communicate your mission and your needs to your constituents – and take this crazy world in hand. Been a long time since you talked to your customers? Seen what the competition is up to? Explored a new angle? Gotten your name on the marquis?
Gandhi said, “Be the change.” Invest in your future. Do it now. It will pay off.
- “They are lucky to have you”
Fast forward to my Mom interviewing at BIG JOB HQ, newly minted MBA in hand, worried she won’t make the cut, and how she’ll feed her kids if she doesn’t. The eye of that inner storm was what my Grandpa said the day she aced the interview and landed the ticket to our new life. “They are lucky to have you,” he said, “don’t you forget it.” My mother never has – even in her darkest professional hour.
How often do we get advice like this?
Why in tough times do we seek to justify our professional existence? Why do we let fear push us into the dark, out-of-scope recesses – the no-mans-land of trying to be everything to everyone, hoping to make it through the next round of resizing? Why can’t we screw down my Grandpa’s lens and be confident in the singular value we provide?
Because for most of us, the value we provide has not changed – only the environment has (if this doesn’t ring true to you, see advice item #1 – if what you do isn’t valued, it is time to invest and/ or move on. It may be the best thing that ever happened to you).
John Lennon said, “I don’t believe in Beatles, I just believe in me.” My Grandpa would be hip to that. The current business climate is, simply put, a hot mess. When in doubt, focus on five simple things:
· Clearly communicate the value you provide in the context of corporate mission
· Be honest about any past shortfalls and realign to address them
· Make promises you’d be proud to keep
· Do your best work
· Most importantly – Stay out of the politics
Deal in what is real. Cast forward. Be confident. This isn’t about making it to the next hitching post unscathed – it’s about pride in who you are, and becoming who you really want to be. Now is the time.
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